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Sandy
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The story of one victory.
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I was scrolling through blogs and one drew my attention.
Have you evere heard about a person born in the alien body? No, I don't speak about some Chewbacca body. I mean a body which is alien to your real nature, to your real gender.
How is it feels to be a trangendered person in our harsh society? I'm sure not that comfortable.
Here is the story of blitterfly. She did it and I'm happy for her
"After nearly 7 months of work (and planning since last summer), I finally had my court appointment this afternoon to have my name and gender officially and legally corrected. I was really panicky last night (thank you roman_kard for comforting me), but this morning I was merely anxious.
bluewolfcv and I had lunch with my lawyer and her wife, then we went down to the court. The judge we were originally assigned was a Republican, and while she was okay with my petition she didn't want to be the one to sign it. So she took us up the back way (in the Judgevator, as she called it), and we went to another judge's chambers.
He apparently had experience with trans people before, and basically had a fill-in-the-blank court order all ready to go. He asked me a couple of the obvious questions (such as "Are you going to use this to evade the law or creditors?"), then he printed it off and signed it. We were in and out in like 20 minutes.
So now I have, in my hot little hands, a certified copy of a court order saying that my name is Heather Elise McLean and my gender is female.
Never again will I be ashamed to show my ID. Never again will I be forced to fill out paperwork using someone else's name.
I am free."
http://blitterfly.livejournal.com/72075.html
Let's pray for more tolerance in this world.
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It's DISGUSTING.
What can I add?
It's against God and Nature. I don't think a person may be born in alien body. It's the sinful elements of society cause mental and psychological damadges and person may start associating himself(herself) with the opposite sex.
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Arther, these people understand that they in the wrong body almost since the moment they are born.
They just can't leave normally and their life is a tragedy until they correct that mistake.
You have a problem with people of a different race, now what have transgendered people done to you?
Do you have any tolerance?
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Hold fast to dreams
For if dreams die
Life is a broken-winged bird
That cannot fly.
Hold fast to dreams
For when dreams go
Life is a barren field
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I have no problem, I don't have problem in expressing my opinion also. That's why I replied, because I'm sure that God couldn't put the soul into wrong body. Do you accuse Him in mistakes?
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I’m sure our poor ecology, nuclear weapon trials and genetic engineering have something to do here.
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I don't agree with you, Arther
I think that people need to be happy in this world. So if the person feels uncomfortable beeing male he has right to change his gender.
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I don’t understand people who change their gender by means of surgery. By doing so they go against the nature and who knows that what consequences can they expect.
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Remember that we are living in democratic society. We should not stop people from doing things they want unless they harm or limit freedom of others.
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Hi there, as you can guess I am the person whose blog Sandy linked to. I always find interesting the wide range of reactions I get to my story.
While I'm not going to tell people what to believe (I know better than to argue with someone over matters of faith in particular), I'm just going to give an explanation of how I see things.
I am, in fact, a religious person. I believe in God and Jesus. I also believe that what I'm doing is the right thing to do. Many people have a difficult time understanding how I could possibly reconcile the two. In particular, arthter said something that I hear quite frequently: How can I accuse God of making such a mistake?
The answer is that I don't. God did not make a mistake in creating me. I was born with the soul that I was intended to have, in a body that does not accurately represent that soul. I believe that it was God's intention to make me a transsexual. This is the experience I was intended to have. It is not an easy existence at all, and it has frequently tested my courage, my strength, and my faith. Through these trials, I believe that I have become a far better person than I was when I started this journey.
It is entirely easy to accuse of me of being sinful, to usurp God's authority and pass judgment on my life. It's something that I'm faced with every day. When you sit back and throw accusations at me, without any idea what it is like to
be
me, you only prove your ignorance. I did not transition from male to female because I thought it was amusing or out of some sort of sexual perversity, and I definitely did not do it to invite the ignorant insults of others.
I did it because I love myself and I want to be true to myself. And when you know what you need to do to live a happy and fulfilling life, the only sin is in not pursuing it.
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Thanks blitterfly for your story!
It's very interesting. I've never spoke with transsexuals, althoug I've seen them (mainly in TV, newspapers)
Can you tell more?
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I have nothing against transsexuals. I was visiting a show in a night club featuring transsexuals, it was a really interesting show. Being a transsexual for these guys means earning money. I believe you don’t earn money being transsexual, you just cannot leave another way. Can you?
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@Simon:
I could be wrong, but what you're describing sounds like what is called a "drag show." Those are not transsexuals but drag queens, (typically) gay men who dress up as caricatures of women for entertainment purposes.
Drag queens are part of the transgender community as a whole, but they are not necessarily also transsexuals. Transsexual refers to people who have a congenital disorder of having a brain sex which does not match their physical sex and then subsequently seek to rectify that situation through various means.
@Sarah:
I suppose. What is it you want to know? I guess to start, the post that Sandy replicatd is only one small part of my story. You could learn more by reading some
related posts
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If you want some general information, I can recommend some web sites and books if you like.
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Well, the show I attended was called “the show of transvistites” . I thought these are guys dressed like women for a show. And they do not necessarily should be gays or transsexuals.
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blitterfly, I understand you, but don't you think (if you are really religious person) that your fate was to suffer in another body?
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I'm not extremely interested in this topic, but as far as you are here,
I would like to know:
how much did it cost?
is it painful or not?
how stressful was it for your mentality?
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arthter, I'm not sure I follow your question. Are you suggesting that I was intended to spend my life suffering instead of doing something about it?
Sarah, what are you referring to specifically? In general, the costs have been enormous in time, energy, and money. Thankfully, unlike some less lucky souls I know, my transition has not cost me family, friends, or my employment. As far as pain and stress... every day is certainly a trial. One thing I didn't really expect is that it has made me incredibly paranoid. I'm already self-conscious about my body as it is, and it makes it difficult to interact with people when you're wondering whether or not they are thinking ill of you or if they even notice that there's something different at all.
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Unbelievable story!
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Re: The story of one victory.
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Oh, what a fag
No really, I feel pity for such "creature", it's not man but not a woman. Woman is supposed to bring new life. This world is full of perverts, and this forum as well.
Hey, Let me ask you somth
Do u miss your penis?
Does it visit you at nights and cries: why, why did you get rid of me?
Who good is your new vagina or you only can have anal sex?
don't get offended
just curious
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Blitterfly, if you still visit this forum - please reply to our questions,
and don't get offended bu King George's post
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August 12, 2007 »
To be honest, I had a difficult time deciding whether or not to respond to this post in the first place. Continuing to read this thread has made it more difficult.
The bizarre thing is that I have never encountered such a dimorphic group as exists on this forum. In one place I've encountered some fairly open-minded individuals as well as some incredibly ignorant and/or hateful posters.
Oh well.
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